Monday, November 16, 2009
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Dear Governor of Rhode Island
But are you not, sir, suppose to defend ALL citizens, not just the ones who would vote for you? As a gay man in the south, I can tell you how vicious people are towards me and others like me, including members of my own family. The law does not protect me and my relationship from them. I can be barred from my future partner's funeral or him from mine; our home can be taken from us; our hospital can deny us visitation.
In America. This happens in America, supposed Land of the Free.
You are suppose to protect ALL citizens, Governor Carcieri, not just the ones you like, not just the ones you prefer, and not just the ones who are exactly like you.
For I and every other gay and lesbian person are citizens of the United States of America. And as such, we deserve the same respect, recognition, and protection as every other citizen of this great country.
One day, you will see that this decision was wrong, hateful, and thoroughly un-American.
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Maine, WTF?!
Thursday, October 29, 2009
The Gays Are Coming! The Gays Are Coming!
I fear that Maine is going to be California Prop 8 all over again. The tired argument of "Your small children will learn about gay marriage in pre school!" is working once again. Never mind the measure has NOTHING about public education in it. And never mind the irony of a predominantly Christian base lying to get what they want. Homosexuality may be an abomination, but "Thy shall not bear false witness" is a freakin' Commandment, people.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Monday, October 26, 2009
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Gains in Maine
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Suck It Up
Really. I guess this reader forgot about asexual organisms that split. No screwing going on there. And the origins of the universe are still vastly unknown, but thus far, I have not heard a scientist claim that the universe began by a powerful cosmic male/female fucking (despite it being named The Big Bang). In fact, outside the planet earth, the sexes, as far as we know, don't exist.
See, this kind of crap pisses me off. It's a limited view: well, on EARTH, male/female relationships dominate; therefore, the entire universe must deem them superior. But outside of this planet and outside of this solar system, there's no evidence that there's male/female at all.
"It can only ever be a ghostly comparison of heterosexual love."
Again, regulating love to that of procreation. Well once a straight couple is infertile, either by age or design, I guess THEIR love is a ghostly comparison of all those fertile, virile couples. Therefore, all our grandparents' relationships are hardly even worth a mention. Despite the fact they raised children and grandchildren together, suffered through economic hard times (my grandparents went through the Depression), and disease (they both died of cancer). But the fact that they couldn't get knocked up anymore complete invalidates ALL of that sacrifice and love.
"Accept your cross, and bear it with dignity."
And just what exactly does he/she think we've been doing for the past 30 years? We've come out of the closet, lived our lives openly and honestly in the face of self-righteous, judgmental jackasses like this reader. It takes a hell of a lot of courage and dignity to live as gay/bi/transgendered, especially if you live in a place like the South (as do I). I have had more atrocious things said to my face than this smug reader probably ever has, and I have responded with dignity and grace (usually "I forgive you"), and he/she has the NERVE to say I need to have MORE dignity and grace?!
This is what I have to say to this reader: "I hope you put your skewed up morals where your mouth is, and get knocked up as many times until the body can't take it anymore. You should pay for 15 kids to go to college and be broke for the rest of your life. Hey, no whining! The universe blessed you as it has cursed me. My cross is to be biologically inferior; your cross is to put up with a house full of screaming kids that demand time, money, and energy until the day you die. And if you're not willing to bear that cross, then perhaps YOU need to go suck a dick."
Monday, October 12, 2009
What She Said
"Our right to marry is of paramount importance ,whether you as an individual gay person listening to me right now, want to get married now or ever. It is important because when a country has different laws for different categories of people, it sends its population a message. That the different group of people with lesser rights are somehow inferior, and less deserving of respect, and in fact, not wholly human. And that message is heard loud and clear by the worst elements of our society. It instructs them that if they are looking for someone to bully or beat or even kill, if they are looking for someone vulnerable to pray upon, gay people are a ready target.
"And that is why this movement is not just about our ability to get married, it's not just about our ability to have a party, it's not even about our ability to stand publicly and announce our love to the person we want to spend the rest of our life with. It's about demanding equal rights, equal responsibilities, equal opportunities, equal treatment, and equal protection under the law so that we can herald in a day when no parent will ever have to endure what our next speaker has endured. ladies and gentlemen, Judy Shepherd [the mother of Matthew Shepherd]."
If our government separates its citizens in terms of the law, they are making a statement about the people it has divided. It singles those out and, whether intentional or unintentional, labels them unworthy, undesirable, and un-American. I'm tired of being told I'm a political eyesore, that I'm not worth a mention from a fearful President, that I'm not good enough to serve my country, that I'm the target of redneck police departments that want to have some fun at my expense....I have been told all my life from others that I am nothing but a sissy worthless faggot whose only value is being a punching bag, an object of ridicule, an object of hate in the name of Jesus Christ. I have had it up to goddamn here.
I am a tax paying, law abiding, contributing member of the United States of America. And I refuse to be told I'm less than any longer.
Monday Morning Haiku
Monday, October 5, 2009
Friday, October 2, 2009
An Uplifting Quote
"When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love has always won. There have been tyrants and murderers and for a time they seem invincible but in the end, they always fall -- think of it, ALWAYS."
The cynic in me responds with, "Ironic that he himself was murdered." And yet, his words live on. As does Martin Luther King's, as does John Lennon's, as does Jesus Christ's. So Gandhi was right: murderers have killed the messengers but not the message. Let's keep passing this message on.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Meet The Fancy Man

Ladies and germs, meet Guido Westerwelle, a German Free Democrat who will become the vice-chancellor and won the Free Democrats' first major office in over 11 years. It should be noted that he supports the war in Afghanistan, limited government, and fiscal responsibility. Oh. And he's gay. Openly gay. Flamboyantly gay. And nobody in Germany really cares, because it's the politics that make the politician and the values that make the man...not who he sleeps with. Why can't America, the supposed leader of the free world, think like that?
Monday, September 28, 2009
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Bride Wars
Random Thought: If gays can't get married, then brides should stop having their bridal showers at gay clubs. Reveling in pre-marital bliss in front of the "have not's" is a little....rude, don't ya think?
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
God Rewarded David With Hot Women
Monday, September 21, 2009
Friday, September 18, 2009
Vote No for No. 1 AGAIN
So the vote for gay marriage is close in Maine. Never mind that the state already decided issue, we have to allow the opportunity for religious people to spread lies and fear that the evil gays are gonna eat your babies and rape you in the ass, and have gay marriage revoked. This is further proof that 1) religion needs to stay the hell in the church (pun intended), and 2) people ARE NOT RATIONAL.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
In Honor Of Hump Day
PROPS
- a pink slip (layoff or undergarment)
- motorcycle boots
- Mormon undergarments
- e-stim unit
- Aplets & Cotlets
- the SLUT
- the P-I globe
- the Statue of Liberty at Alki Beach
- the giant mitt outside Safeco Field
LOCATIONS
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Really? You like XYZ Guys?
The one thing I’ve noticed when discussing sexual attraction with others is that people view sex as either/or decisions. The obvious example is the attitude that you’re either gay or you’re straight. (Very few will acknowledge bisexuals or asexuals.)
Another example, in regards to race, was an incident that happened to me a year ago. (To understand the context, I am white.) I was at a gay bar and I saw this really cute, slightly dorky black guy with the wire rim glasses and a really great smile. Unfortunately, he was with somebody (ain’t that always the way?). I made a comment about how cute I thought he was to a friend of mine and his response was, “You like black boys? I didn’t think you liked black boys?” Then he spent the entire evening trying to scan out other African-American men for me.
The thing is, I wasn’t attracted to his race. The features about him that drew my attention were that great smile and that slightly dorky, nerdy vibe that others who dig dorky, nerdy guys know exactly what I’m talking about. He could’ve been Asian, Hispanic, Spanish, Middle Eastern, or White, and if he had those same features, I would’ve crushed on him.
But my friend now thinks I only want to date black guys. See? So many people in our culture (I refer to American culture) think that all sexual attraction is an either or proposition, especially in terms of race. And if you are attracted to someone outside of your own race, it’s almost seen as a fetish, as if it was something “special” or “unique.”
So the flip-side of “I don’t date XYZ” is “I ONLY date XYZ.” Either statement is limiting and is probably based on preconceived notions of race XYZ.
Monday, September 14, 2009
Kanye West Doesn't Care About White People!!! ;-)

Are you sad? Are you depressed? Do you feel the need to charge the stage every time a white person wins a frivolous award? Then you suffer from Kanye-ism. Symptoms include: delusions of grandeur, talent, and relevance, self-aggrandizement, and penis envy. Kanye-sim: proof that fame and money can't change ordinary trailer trash.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Where's the alternative solution?
To the original author of this post, I agree. I think there needs to be a safety net for catastrophic healthcare. A degenerative disease like MS or cancer can deplete the savings of even some of the wealthiest citizens in the U.S. I do agree with Kordo though in that if a proposal like that were made, there would be a concession towards the poor of the country. I'm not sure if you could get around that nor am I sure that you would want to. If nothing else, it would perpetuate the stereotype that Republicans only care about the rich and don't give a damn about the poor.
Personally, I don't think the government is out of line when they require citizens to have health insurance. Most states require every driver to have auto insurance. I live in Tennessee, which is a no-fault state. You are required by law to have auto insurance if you drive a vehicle. The main goal being that insurance costs can stay down if mostly everyone is insured.
Having worked in healthcare billing, the 2 biggest costs to hospitals were 1) the uninsured, and 2) the patients who decided to file a frivolous lawsuit, either with the hospital itself or with a third party. In fact, I'd venture to say (he says facetiously) that if we got rid of the damn lawyers and uninsured, our healthcare system would be okay. (kidding....sort of...)
As far as having a free market...healthcare is not a free market, has never been a free market, and never will be a free market. All insurance prices are state mandated. All insurance companies make "contractual agreements" (i.e. bribes) to hospital systems to funnel their insureds to those specific doctors, hospitals, and labs (i.e. "in network"). If it were a true free market, don't you think that prices of medical services would be posted? (You just try to ask a doctor how much a lab test will cost, how much an MRI will cost). Where's the price competition? I haven't seen advertisements for hospitals that have more affordable emergency room services than the other guy, have you?
So for those bemoaning the loss of a free market system, you should've been crying over it in the late 60's, early 70's, because that's when the insurance companies took over our healthcare system, and they've been running ever since. So now the only choice that patients get to make is what insurance company they can have, and believe me, as a now full time student trying to get single payer private health insurance, ($3500 of my puny income has to be dedicated to my premiums and my deductible before my insurance ever kicks in), that's not much of a choice.
The only people who are benefiting from the current healthcare system are insurance companies. The hospitals aren't. The insurance companies are denying claims at a more frequent rate. They have a department of their company solely devoted to denying claims, which then makes it the patient's responsibility. Anytime we had to send a bill to the patient, it was considered a lost cause. Patients don't/can't pay the bill. So the hospitals write off bigger and bigger losses every year. And the patients declare bankruptcy, default on the medical debt, and drop/get dropped from their insurance carrier. Which then makes everyone else's rates increase and coverage decrease. This system doesn't work, plain and simple.
So while I don't agree with most aspects of Obama's healthcare plan (it still doesn't explain to me how it's going to pay for itself), at least it's a start. And I haven't heard a better alternative from the Right. The only things I've heard from the Right (as well as everyone else) is that Obama is Hitler incarnate, that we are now Russia, and the world is going to end.
So to all those on the Right, get your act together and come up with a counter proposal, like this author has, and add amendments to the current bill. But if you can't find any sympathy from the White House or from the voters, it's probably because you've been acting like jackasses for the past year. Oh....and get off Bill Clinton. You're just as bad as the liberals still trashing George W. Bush. George W. Bush and Bill Clinton were both lousy presidents and are no longer in power (thank god). Get over it. Move forward, please.
Signed,
The 25 year old who is paying for your Medicare and Social Security, and who will be paying your debt for the rest of his life.
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Conservatives and the Environment
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Morning Haiku
Monday, September 7, 2009
Sunday, September 6, 2009
An Old Econ Essay
When Adam Smith describes the Invisible Hand as “the mysterious power, each working for his own gain, to promote ends that benefit many,” it seems that healthcare is the exception to the rule. There is a general consensus that the United States healthcare system is inefficient, inflated, poorly managed, besieged by unnecessary litigation (i.e. malpractice lawsuits), and insurance fraud on both sides of the operating table. Everyone, from the insurance carrier to the hospital, the employer and the employee, are working for their own gain in regards to healthcare, and all of them are losing. Having worked in medical billing, I can attest to health insurance companies conveniently “misplacing” claims until the timely filing deadline passes, and then denying the claim due to missed timely filing. I can also testify to the practices of lawyers, who use the insurance payments to maximize their own fees instead of paying off their client’s medical expenses. “Out of the seeming chaos of millions of uncoordinated private transactions emerges the spontaneous order of the market,” and yet, we see no clear coordination in U.S. healthcare. We see the exact opposite.
Healthcare is literally bankrupting the American citizen. According to a Harvard study, out-of-pocket expenses for those who filed for bankruptcy either partially or solely because of medical debt averaged to $12,000. That same study found that 50 percent of all bankruptcy filings in the United States were partly due to medical debt. 68 percent of those filers had health insurance coverage[i]. On the surface, it doesn’t make sense considering that insurance is supposed to shield the consumer from the majority of costs they could otherwise not afford. But from 1996 to 2003, out-of-pocket expenses rose from 37.3 percent to 43.1 percent[ii], and it shows no signs of leveling off or decreasing.
As a consequence, many people have decided that the cost of health insurance coverage is too high and choose to go without it. Their opportunity cost is emergency and preventative healthcare. This opportunity loss is doing more harm than good. Economists found that the increase in medical expenses correlates with the decrease in health insurance coverage[iii]. So while many people believe they are saving money by foregoing health insurance, they are actually contributing to the overall rising cost and, inevitably, to their own future medical debt. When health insurance companies lose paying customers, they have to decrease overall health coverage for their insured and simultaneously raise their rates to cover the loss. This leads to more lost customers, (which includes employers who offer healthcare coverage to their employees), who either cannot afford the rate increase or received medical care that is no longer covered or only partially covered. It’s a continuing cycle of lessening coverage and increasing premiums.
The effect on the economy is staggering. 25 percent of housing problems, including foreclosures, are caused by medical debt[iv]. Items normally considered to be inelastic are becoming more elastic. An Iowa survey saw that 44 percent cut back on their food purchases and heating expenses in response to medical charges[v]. It is now estimated that the retiring elderly will need at least $250,000 in savings just for basic medical care[vi]. Some experts even stated that the original number should be closer to $300,000. If dire medical attention is needed, those figures will obviously be inadequate. By the year 2017, the United States expects to spend $4.3 trillion on medical expenses. Healthcare spending would make up 20 percent of the Gross Domestic Product (GDP).[vii]
Reform is needed. The debate is centered on who will accept the majority of the responsibility for healthcare coverage: individuals, employers, or government? Typically, the healthcare burden was on businesses to provide coverage for their employees. According to the Henry J. Kaiser Family Foundation, “Since 1999, employment-based health insurance premiums have increased 120 percent, compared to cumulative inflation of 44 percent and cumulative wage growth of 29 percent.” It is apparent that businesses can no longer afford to offer comprehensive coverage to the American worker. It is also apparent that the American worker cannot afford comprehensive coverage on his/her own.
Which leaves the United States government.
“…society through government first establishes a system of justice, to protect the poor and the rich”[viii] Adam Smith argues that the role of government is the preserver and protector of its citizens. Right now, many American citizens are facing a lifetime of debt due to medical charges. This is money that cannot be invested or spent in the U.S. economy. Our government obviously has an interest in maintaining our economy, and it would be to their advantage to alleviate this toxic situation. As Smith says in his own Wealth of Nations: “We appeal not to their humanity but to their self-interest, and never talk to them of our own necessities, but of their advantages.”[ix]
The government can use a Tax Change to increase the Short Run Aggregate Supply of Health Insurance by increasing disposable household income and higher post-tax profits for businesses who offer health insurance coverage to their employees. These combined should create a higher level of Aggregate Demand for health insurance coverage. The government must remain careful not to reduce the overall tax burden, as this would create an excess of demand, leading to inflation. This would be counter-productive.
But if the government can shift public perception regarding health insurance coverage, making “uninsured” the opportunity cost by simply increasing the short run supply of health coverage, then health insurance companies would be able to keep the needed number of customers to obtain the needed capital to cover their insured. Overall rates would decrease and coverage would increase, thereby reversing the current opposite trend. This would free up money otherwise tied up by medical debt, influencing savings, investments, and growth in the Long Run.
[i] Himmelstein, D, E. Warren, D. Thorne, and S. Woolhandler, “Illness and Injury as Contributors to Bankruptcy,” Health Affairs Web Exclusive W5-63, February, 2005.
[ii] Agency for Healthcare Research and Quality. Out-of-Pocket Expenditures on Health Care and Insurance Premiums Among the Non-elderly Population, 2003, March 2006.
[iii] The Henry J. Kaiser Foundation,. The Uninsured: A Primer, Key Facts About Americans Without Health Insurance. 2004. 10 November 2004 http://www.kff.org/uninsured/7451.cfm
[iv] The Access Project. Home Sick: How Medical Debt Undermines Housing Security. Boston, MA, November 2005.
[v] Selzer and Company Inc. Department of Public Health 2005 Survey of Iowa Consumers, September 2005.
[vi] Fidelity Investments, Press Release, March 06, 2006.
[vii] Keehan, S. “Health Spending Projections Through 2017”, Health Affairs Web Exclusive W146: 21 February 2008.
[viii] Wright, Jonathan B., Saving Adam Smith, Financial Times/Prentice Hall, November 2001.
[ix] Jenkins, Arthur Hugh, Adam Smith Today: An Inquiry into the Nature and Causes of The Wealth of Nations, New York, 1948.
[x] Smith, Adam, Theory of Moral Sentiments




